Infidelity

I always question what makes a person feel the need to cheat? Is that they are not happy in there relationship? That they are greedy? or is it just plain heartlessness?

In opinion its the latter, I don't understand why anyone would purposely want to go out and break someone's heart because cheaters always get caught, and the same old lines are always used again and again "I wont do it again, its you I want" "I didn't mean to" "I'm sorry" but they aren't sorry, they are just sorry they got caught.

Infidelity can range from one night stands to full blown affairs, which puts people in very awkward predicaments, which could lead to blackmail and a lot of hurt, not only from the victim of the cheater, but the their bit on the side, and people who find out.

Trust is a main aspect of a relationship, and it takes a long time to build up complete trust with someone, but it will be broken the second they find out you've been unfaithful, and once there's no trust there's no relationship.

A lot of the time people confuse their feeling, thinking that they are in love with someone else, but most of the time its just the excitment, the chase, the secrets that make them feel happy again its not love, and if somethings missing in the relationship they are in, it makes it more tempting for a person to cheat.

Some people go their whole lives cheating and being unfaithful to people, as the saying goes "once a cheater always a cheater" whilst other remain faithful their whole lives and can work on any issues within the relationship without feeling the need to put someone else in their life.